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Tips for introverts to make friends while traveling

Updated: Nov 19



If you are an introvert who values physical and mental space from other people, Mongolia is worth checking out with a beaten-off path Nothing can describe the sheer open vastness of Mongolia, plains that run for miles and miles. Mongolia is a hidden gem that offers the perfect blend of nature, culture, and solo activities. If you need some more convincing, here are a few reasons why Mongolia is a must-visit destination for those who like to travel but hate crowds.


  1. Avoid staying at hotels or tourist camps. Instead, stay at a hostel or a local homestay.


The Mongolians are warm-hearted and sincere. They like to talk with tourists.  They welcome strangers traveling to stay for the night in their ger and treat them to milk tea, food, and airag. The guests are given a warm send-off by the hosts and pray for their safe journey.


2. Eat where locals eat


Not only are the touristy restaurants more expensive, but you could end up feeling lonely there. Locals want to meet with travelers more than you'd want to meet them. Also, they can tell you the region's off-beat places that are worth a visit.

 

3. Participate in the activities organized by the hostel.




While making friends during your travels is great, you may have it in your head that if you aren’t meeting people, you aren’t traveling right – and this simply isn’t true. Exploring a country all by yourself is one of the most rewarding things you’ll ever do. You learn about what you do and don’t enjoy, you learn to be comfortable with your own company and you can do whatever you like at your own pace. If you’re not up to approaching people and you don’t mind spending some time with your lovely self, you can have just as incredible a time discovering your surroundings all on your own. The memories are just as unforgettable and the experience is just as valuable. Who knows – you could meet a spectacular person at your next destination, who you never would have encountered if you weren't alone!


4. Have A Creative Travel Project or Purpose like taking photography



Life isn't Facebook. You can't ask people to be your friend by sending them a request. Friendship cannot be forced, it just happens. You may help people as much as you want, but it won't necessarily make you, their friend. Friends stick with each other even when they don't need any help. If you are desperate, that would seem clingy, which is creepy.



5. Positive solitude is the ability to feel fulfilled and happy while alone.

It’s enjoying your own company and not needing to have any external stuff or people.

As an introvert, you’re likely already quite good at this. But solitude can feel a bit different when traveling. So, it helps to practice and sharpen your solitude skills outside of your home and city.

Some examples of positive solitude are:

  • Enjoying self-entertainment

  • Indulging in your guilty pleasures

  • Journaling

  • Reading

  • Writing

  • Creative projects (I love to write music while traveling, for example)

  • Exploring nature and parks

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